Hi I am sorry you are feeling so stressed. I hope your husband stays safe. Well for me I try to not jump in my mind to an RSD spread with a sign of a new pain. Obviously this easier said then done. I also get fearful I will brush something off as rsd pain but it be something else. So depending what you feel this may be could you call your doc and see if he or she should see you? I know for me that the stress in life makes it harder for me to cope with the physical pain. Also I am more tense,sleep less,ect and that makes the pain worse. I am sorry I am not offer much help. I hope you feel better