i am sorry you are in such pain. do you have good support? i hope someone is helping, 8 wks is a very short time for this operation. please listen to your body and do only what your body says is okay.

keep up a positive attitude if you can, as this promotes healing. eat a diet with protein and all different colors of fruits and veggies. a good diet will also help you heal. get a lot of sleep if you can. i recommend a multi vitamin and extra b12 for stress.

I have not had the operation but i have you in my thoughts for a positive outcome.