Oh, I have the same problem. My RSD is my left hand and arm. I feel bad pulling away as many don't know or understand. I don't even understand. How do I explain to them? I feel like I need to walk around with a "do not touch" sign. I am involved with a 4H group with my kids and the kids are more cautious of my left side than parents are. Many days I have a nice, comfy mitten or glove on my hand if it's cold. The kids again, are great but parents just don't get it. When I had a cast on my arm they understood and were helpful and great. I have tried to maintain as normal a life for my husband and kids but when a party or night out with friends comes up i am so nervous.

I will say that I have recently been using a tens unit. At first I didn't like it but now I love it. It comes with a glove that my Dr thinks would really help but I cannot tolerate the feel of it. Anyway, if I am going out somewhere that makes me nervous I use the tens before and bring it with me so if I can sneak away I will use it. If only it were wireless. I also have a compound gel that helps on really sensitive days.