not sure if i made a suggestion but i do apologize if my question was indelicate. i certainly did not mean to add insult to injury.

thank you for speaking up about not wanting suggestions. as you say, people try to be helpful and in the way of that, when we think of things... we do tend to suggest them. so it is good to be clear about that. i don't always think of it myself, and in some situations, i get frustrated by suggestions. but until that happens, i often don't realize i perhaps am needing/wanting a different sort of support.

take care.

~ waves ~