I had a whole post written and lost it. This damn new laptop. Got it for Christmas and it's still driving me nuts

I am sorry to hear what you both are going through.

I was wondering if councelling might help you and your better halves. Bill and I spent years in councelling seperately. It helped him understand what I was dealing with and visa versa.

Also as far as meds. Have you called the companies to get the form to get them free? They will send you a form to fill out and if you can't afford it they will send them to you through your Drs. office for a year and after the year you just fill out the form again. It's pretty easy. Bill and I got some of our meds free for years through the companies that make them.

Andrea, have you tried the lidocaine patch to put on the site?

I do hope both of you finally find some relief for your pain and fjind some peace in your lives.

Ada