On this same line...I would never, ever and anyway since I'm post-menopausal, see a male OB/GYN. I remember during my many trips to the ER during my pregnancy with Michael and having to deal with male doctors and say...."you know that kind of weird feeling you get when the baby does whatever, well it hasn't happened lately," and just get back that blank stare. There is just something about a doctor that has to have experienced what you are experiencing. ITA about chronic pain and I've even dealt with that blank stare with my neurologist talking about seizures.