i am sending you a ton of hugs......also pam spray with olive oil might work...i think i would gag at the smell of fish during the regular day time...in the middle of the night i think i would start vomitting....the other day you posted problems he presented and then you erased the post....you are a saint.....even if you weren't bipolar and didn't have a stroke and didn't have those parents you would be giving Job a run for his money.....no I don't mean to make light of it but somebody is in need of serious help but I am afraid he might be too well defended to see what he is doing to you. I used to think a bigger apartment would be the answer but now i think maybe he needs a behavioral therapist...and I don't like behavioral therapists....
more hugs
bobby