Hi I am sorry the wedding came with some issues. I do not dance. I could not from the pain and I am also have lack of range of motion. I do feel pressure by people in similar issues like you state. I try to take a deep breath and not allow people to pressure me into hurting so to speak. Do they know what you suffer from? For me sometimes it is just better to say I am having health issues that don't allow me to do X for now. I too on the outside look fine. I feel it is the simple pleasures in life I miss so much like this you are stating. Something I don't get regardless if you had no problems why people nag. If you don't want to what is it to them. Hopefully oneday maybe things will be different and you can dance away.