I have always felt that the world would be a better place if others could focus and keep comments to themselves unless they are asked.
Darlinde some people I do feel it is out of care and they think they are helping but others I feel it is just be nosey and liking to tell people what to do. Have you ever said to your co workers if I eat X I may end up the hospital. Sometimes I have to give an ex. For me I really don't expect people to understand what I do expect is for them to not comment or suggest things that they have no clue about. I get more dumb suggestions on how to get better from people it is unreal to me. My grandfathers gf is the best at that and then I go what do I suffer from and she can't even tell me but is the first to yell at me for not trying things like yoga. Ok sorry for my rant. I hope you have people too who are caring and can support you in some ways