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Old 05-27-2010, 07:08 AM
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Daniella...of course I have very supportive friends and yes, everyone at my work knows my limitations. I have worked with these people for 6 yrs, and I have been like this since the day they met me! They still behaved that way..that's the part that makes it difficult. It's very uncomfortable when others repeatedly "nag" is the only word I can think of. I just wanted to watch and enjoy the party, yet I left with a tummy ache simply because they stressed me out.

I guess we understand better than anyone else, and we know enough not to nag. I do ask others if I can help them with something, if they say they are fine, I don't ask again. Asking once is ok, it's that again and again and again that gets too us.

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My husband asked me the same thing when I fell; "Why did you do that?". WTF.
You should of said, "Just checking to see if you are paying attention!"
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