JAMY - i'm so sorry that you're in so much pain. I don't have alot to offer other than support. Have you talked to your doctor about some sort of pain medication - over and beyond the tylenol or motrin? I know for me, on most days that I work, the tyelnol just doesn't cut it. also, several people take a muscle relaxer as needed to help relax those really tight muscles. and, you have every right to be frustrated, upset, confused, etc.
chin up-
dabbo