Colleen,

I feel for you. I guess the reason why I don't want anyone living with me is that I have to have things my way at home after having it like that for some time now. Having my place tore up would also be nerve racking also. Hang in there. It may take a little while to adjust to it until it's done. When I had strangers in my apartment after my eye surgery to take care of me it was nerve racking to me but I calmed down after a while about it. Maybe if you can tell yourself it's only temparily it will also help.

Hugs,
barbara