Thank you Jo*mar for clarifying what I was trying to say . One error in your post is "her" is a he ! LOL.... , I had learned to take on a lot of the domestic duties in our house from being a fireman . I cooked every 3rd day for 10-15 people for 20 plus years while on duty at the fire house . So it carried over to our household . The things I could do blindfolded , I now struggle with at home . The definition you posted is dead on as to the type of assistance I was inquiring about . Thank you again and take care !