If we want someone to share our life with, we get married. If we want to make a life for someone else, we have a child.
Though you're going to miss you child terribly, you'll do what all good parents do - sit back and watch them make a great life for themselves. Their purpose was never to make your life, but for you to make theirs. You've done it, and done it well. Now that's something to be proud of.
You now have the choice of living it alone or if it's time to add someone to your life as a partner or companion. I'm hoping that you'll share yourself once again, but this time as an equal partner so you can make another great chapter in your life, but as long as you're whole life is built around your kid, then why ever go out and make one for yourself? All single parents hit this stage, but it's their true love that makes them have their kid leave the nest so they can do some amazing things that you helped make in the first place. Best of luck, Bob.
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Originally Posted by debbiehub
My only child will be leaving for college in August and I am scared. He is my home entertainment- what keeps me going and keeps me smiling. i don't know what I am going to do. I still have my husband and family but it's not the same. I love the kid so much and it is going to be so painful. He is my distraction from this illness that has taken everything from me. I don't know what to do as I get worse and lose more function with each passing day!
It really stinks
Debbie
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