Wow, I cannot believe that one people actually lie about a disability! I for one do not want to be disabled so I cannot believe people wold lie about it. YUCK!!!
I have my good days as well as my bad and unfortunatly my bad days out weigh the good. I would hate for someone to spy on me but I am pretty sure they have. I have been on LTD for 2 yrs and on SSDI for 10mnths. There are some days that i can go to the gym and walk in the water or lay on my raft. Then there are days that I cannot get out of bed. I really would rather work than deal with pain but I am dealing with the cards that I have been dealt. I have Lupus and poly-myositis with a little crohns for fun so most of my days are on my couch.
As for the vacations, I really think that we need them just as much as people who work. We have to deal with our illness 24/7 not just 40 hrs a week!!!
I hope everyone has a good day! Enjoy what we can and do what we can when we can do it