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Originally Posted by Mari
Dear Bobby,
My parents are so horrible. . . .Self involved. . . .Controlling even now.
And part of me really wants to get over the bad parenting. The other parts wants to stay angry and sad for a while for no other reason than "just because."
M.
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I don't think we can ever get over the bad parenting but once they die we have a chance of not bleeding as much. pretty negative right....as long as you can stay angry at least you won't carry around the deep depression that they can currently cause. I don't think anybody can understand unless they have lived through a similar situation and know how unstable they make the world we live in. geez my mother hurt me even after she died. i had such a relief when she died because i thought she was no longer able to hurt me...ha
bobby