Taking care of my parents has been a real source of strength to me... knowing I can still be good for something. Today is the 1st anniv. of my Dad passing. Now I am taking care of Mom, she's Job #1. TOS is Job #2.
Looking back, I did everything I could do. It's a satisfying feeling. I know you will gain endless strength from caring for your parents, no matter how much you may hurt. Please take care of yourself dolfinz!