The problem being that non of us know this until too late ! ! and we have actually shown parts of our personality in conversations and if not normaly grumpy and grimacing we have already blown it! I am now have a catalogue of Dr's assumptions from either wrongly veiw medical notes or conversations. The problem being that they will never come back to you to clarify anything, after all they are qualified medical proffesionals and I have to use spell check (which won't, sorry). If we constantly whined on about the truth of our situations it would drive us into total depression too. I can't help being one of life's optomists, good for my problems but absolutely no use what so ever for my compensation case.