Hi again, I thought that this may help you, in my opinion it is a brilliant piece of writing which I've lifted from the LivingwithTN website by a lady known as 'the researcher' I'm sure she'll not mind me sharing it as she seems to be a very helpful person. Some of it might apply to your situation, so have a read of this and see if it does help you....

http://www.livingwithtn.org/forum/to...31Comment38684

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