I know a good one in Seattle and she comes highly recommended from several sources. Her office manner has to be one of the best I've encountered and unfortunately I've seen many doctors for numerous orthopedic injuries and spine problems. However, I don't know if she deals with t-spine issues. I face t-spine and c-spine surgery at some point due to stenosis. Major medical centers that I've heard things about are the Mayo Clinic and Cleveland Clinic. You might be able to send your MRI and have them look at the MRI before booking the trip.

You do need to get the issues addressed but you also don't want to agree to the 1st dr who says operate. Definitely get several opinions as this is a major life long decision.

I understand wanting your kid(s) to see you in a better form. I have a 4 year old and one on the way. Back problems and pregnancy don't play well together.