Hi friends, I think the answer to this is a happy medium. The problem, other that the obvious RSD, is that it seems like from the little bits of information that everyone gives, that we were all over-achievers!! I, too worked all kinds of manic hours and loved my job. I was also raising two kids by myself and putting them through college, then WHAM! I fell off a counter at work, and my life changed forever. I really went through a dark period before I could come to grips with the fact that I would never be the same. I simply can not believe how much I have had to slow down and how much time I spend sitting around now. So onto to tomorrow, I am just glad that nobody knows what I planned to get done today. Lisa