We ALL have alot to learn, matters not how many degrees we have. I certainly appreciate all the love and support that I have found here. When I am feeling argumentative it's been when I didn't feel listened to. When I was busy investigating the side effects of the dangerous but helpful medication, it's been when I have felt really afraid and worried about my future. I have expressed much anger at the medical community. As a nurse, no longer able to work, I did not have any idea how awful it feels to be completely at the mercy of someone who seems clinical and uncaring. God help me if I have acted that way. If I don't allow posters to be who they are and describe their experiences, no matter what they are, then when I feel crappy and negative and seem so contrary, then who will listen to me??? we are all in this TOGETHER! FG