Aw Mari...
Sorry to read this thread ! I understand how this kind of situations hurt our souls and minds... (sorry of that sounded stupid... hopefully you get my point...
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First, about your tdoc... hum, time to start looking for a new one ? It is difficult to find a doc that we like... uff... tell me about it... I met several pathetic people in the process, but oh well...
About hubby: hum... my humble opinion is, that, it might be good if you "ignore" him a bit when he is like that...
You know, you deal with your own troubles, and, not getting too involved in "others" problems sometimes is good... However, I know this is too difficult... we love that person, or, perhaps we dont like that person, but there are attitudes that certainly are difficult to ignore because they bother us one way or the other...
Just try... patience Mari ! patience !
How are things today ?