Wow Mari, that stinks. From feeling like you can't talk to hubby about things to having a tdoc you feel you can't go any further with. I am really sorry this is happening, but I totally understand what made you angry about the session you shared with him. Not good. He doesn't admit the hoarding does he? I mean if he recognized there was a problem wouldn't he ask a tdoc for help on it instead of putting up a front showing no problems exist? My mom's third husband is a hoarder and it's very difficult to deal with for Mom. He refuses to go in for help either. Says they can't help him. He won't trust them to help him, so that's a no go for him. But it sounds like there's more hope for your hubby. Like he's capable of change.

Been thinking about you and hoping things are better, take care Mari!