Ada, my wife's gone through exactly what you have. She tried to do it alone with no luck. With her shyness she would drop hints to me and being a guy it took sometime for me to get it. Once I did I now fight for her constantly. No, all doctors where no good to her and didn't like her, just the one she has now which wouldn't treat her if I wasn't around and it disturbs me to no end. My wife absolutely freaks out when someone questions her mental capacity, has been told to see a shrink several times because of her pain and her association with incidents that equate to bad pain, but doctors don't understand. One thing that hurts her is handling paper, why? She worked for 4 years with RSD doing office work. The handling of paper overtime hurt her badly but when she explains to the doc this paper pain thing they think she's a nut. She has steadfastly refused to see a psychologist and its hurt her.