Well, you're young, so just tell the ladies that they are SOOOO fine that you are constantly having to "wink" at them!

Seriously, though, the people who love you aren't going to care about your eyelid drooping. And you will find as you go through life that the people who are willing to look past that are the ones that you want in your life, because they are the ones who know that what is inside is what matters.

I can't give you any reassurance about the droopy eyelid, as I am really new to this whole thing, but I hope that this helps!