I am going to pick him up.

He doesnt have a bladder/kidney or other infections. he has no crystals. He is...ready? stressed out! seriously! he has been holding his urine and that has caused himto become inflammed, and then it hurts to pee, so he holds it more. We just lost our 23 year old cat (his buddy) and the toilet training was putting him over the edge. so...we are back to a litter box. He will be on anti inflammatory meds, anti anxiety meds, and some pain meds till his bladder heals.

Poor thing. he misses his sissy. then all the changes that came with her death, put him over the edge.

cost me lots of money to find that out.