Oh I talked alot, I am usually a quiet person until i am bothered by something then watch out......you could not get me to stop. It is my venting process. I have found over time that talking takes the weight and burdon off of your shoulders that we sometimes carry.
You are talking now and by the way things look you are definetly effective and impactfull to individuals. If you had talked about micheals death then you would probably not be where you are to day. Emotions tend to guide us blindly through life.