What an ordeal!!
I'm so sorry you are dealing with this! BUT!...
You've come to a fabulous place! The care and support here is beyond amazing. Everyone here 'knows' the anguish of pain and the endless cycle of unanwered questions.....
I just wanted to say 'Welcome' and am glad you've happened upon this place that has become my 'safe haven', as i like to refer to it
Others will be along to share and give good insight
You'll get plenty of good support and suggestions......

Caring
Rae