Jeanie , Thank you so much for the kind words ! By invaluable I meant - Extremely useful; indispensable , so for that I am very thankful .... I have been taking the small things in a lot more as you mentioned and with the help of this site and family am making the best of this stuff ! And thank you so much for the prayers , that means more than you will ever know ! Looking back I should have joined this site a lot earlier as I used to just drop in and read the post , but it is certainly and outlet when you need to just put your thoughts out their instead of keeping em bottled up ! Yours and others advice have truly been blessings and have taught me a lot of things about myself that I did not know....bless you and thank you "friend" ! take care ...