Rae I am sorry to find the loss of brother is in your pocket. It is in my pocket too. and as you know... I just recently found my very close long time school friend is terminal. Thanks for starting this thread.
we have been talking allot lately about old times, times we were not in contact so much ... we talk about worries or wonder what it will be like. ending life in dignity . talk about how things are never fair .
sometimes I have dreams . I told her of a recent dream . and she said I made her cry. Now I feel bad. the dreams did not make me feel like crying. it made me feel comfort and connected .It was like I got to spend a very awesome time, with a sister I havent seen in a long time. ... that is what I told her too.
WAS THAT WRONG? insenitive ?? I didnt even think it would make her cry.
I youtube her songs I am sending her some wine. we are trading must read book suggestions. and plan to go visit her very soon. So what do you say to a dying person??????????
What do you say to a dying person who dose not want but a very few knowing they are dying ??