I swear, I have one neighbor that constantly drops in UNannounced and always says the exact same thing. "oh! im sorry, you were napping again?" and she give me that sympathetic head nod. I always respond "nope, just running myself ragged and havent had time to comb my hair, but a nap is a great idea!" She always looks at me like I just crawled off the mother ship.

I learned long ago to stop giving a bing bong about what other people want from me. Im dancing as fast as I can.