It's often awkward difficult or impossible to find the ONE that's just rite? Not encountered it yet! But trying different ones, 'accessory' type pillows which are smaller at times, work best, but they're hard to wash and keep clean.
My skin has been soo dry at times? That I've slathered Vasolene on affected areas... and it DIDN'T help. To be candid? What mite work for you? Mite not for me, but that doesn't mean putting what's worked or not out there for you, couldn't help another sort out the which/whats.
We each develop cleaning 'routines' that work for us! From soaps to slathers! It can become an ardurous endeavor.
Hope you're getting good info from others! Keep trying things! Something out there has gotta work for YOU! HUGS!'s - j