Thank you for the replies.

It's comforting to know other people understand the stresses TOS puts on our minds and bodies. I just wish the medical field understood more about it.

I've always been extremely self-reliant, independent, strong (both physically and mentally), and active.
No more. TOS has changed my life.

My thoughts are that surgery may be the end of TOS. But from what I'm reading, it's not that simple.
But if I opt out of surgery, what would I do next? I am not sure I can handle the possibility of living with TOS for much longer.... trying one thing after the next to soothe my pain and getting nowhere.
That is not living! And it is not the life I want.

I have just over 2 weeks until my surgery, so I feel pressured to make a decision ASAP.

I'll keep reading through this forum for advice and insight. I so appreciate all of your kind and encouraging words. Thanks for sharing your stories with me! I would love to read more.