Spouses,
You both would benefit from downloading the TBI Survival Guide at
http://www.drakecenter.com/file.axd?...vivalGuide.pdf
Print it out so you can pass it around to friends and family. The "ah ha" moments will be frequent.
It is oriented for severe TBI but is great for PCS.
Both of your wives can go on with their lives with a bit of help and understanding. The first need is to understand their symptoms. Then you need to learn to separate each symptoms so you can address them individually. Trying to use a shotgun approach with PCS is overwhelming.
Post up the specific symptoms that are the most frustrating and I am sure someone will have some help with them. We use work-arounds and accommodations to get past our ongoing symptoms.
My best to you two.