Hi there. Melody here. I'm a wife like you are. I take care of my Alan.

I'm surprised no one has ordered some kind of x-ray of your guy's shoulder. He might have a frozen shoulder (I have this) and when it gets cold outside, I go nuts). I use hot compresses and the best thing in the world called TIGER BALM.

Go to the store and rub some on his arm and shoulder. He'll love it.

All the best.

Melody