hey cs,
unfortunately, some people's intrinsic character is a lot like water, taking the path of least resistance.

it's nothing personal to them, they just fear for themselves, what they believe is their best interests.

people often fear and distrust what they do not understand.
it can be very difficult for those that have never been taught, shown or explained to that there are times to step outside yourself and see to what someone else may need, want or is in their best interest.

fear and anger are only a few letters apart, as trite as it sounds.

dunno, if it helps?
take care
tammy