Hi.

I can't even imagine what you are going through. Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your husband. He sounded like a real good guy, full of life and before his accident, he sounded like he was your soul mate. You have suffered a tremendous loss.

I am including a link to our grief and loss forum. Please go there. You can copy and paste your story that you put on this thread and post it over there. You will then meet up with people dealing with loss similar to yours.

http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/fo...aysprune=&f=51

I am saying similar because no one can ever know what another person suffers, but when we lose someone dear to us, and we have the support of others who have walked in our shoes, well we learn better coping methods.

We learn that one day, the sun will shine for us, we learn that maybe some day, we won't wake up and start to cry.

You have been through hell. It's still very recent.

I hope you have a good support system at home. Your husband was a wonderful husband, father and grandpa. I hope your relatives are now here for YOU.

Here's a hug because we should all hug each other once in a while.



I wish you well, and please know that I just said a prayer for your husband.

Take care

Melody