I agree , become a huge pest! Remember you're paying them both, your contractor and your neuro! The contractor I had would try to avoid asking me questions about how we wanted our addition to be and would ask my DH who figured they knew best and would be too agreeable to almost anything. The B in me came out during that time. Hated to do it, but someone had to and we were paying huge amounts of money for it. Also, I had to have it that it would be safest and best for me since I'm the one with the MS and that the reason we needed a full bathroom and laundry room on the first floor.