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Old 02-10-2007, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted by befuddled2 View Post
....I feel like asking my Rehab. counselor for an outside mediator like from another agency, that has no connection between the both Goodwill and the Dept. of Rehab. as for as contracts.
befuddled2
This sounds like a good idea.
Communicating takes practice, practice, practice.
But i know that I can obcess about confrontations as well.
Timing is everything when learning to be assertive.
Practice the "I" statements...
I feel afraid of you when you threaten me...
I am angry that I have to walk on "egg shells" around you.
I feel sad when you put me down and then say you were "just joking"...

I wonder if you could take a public speaking class and if that could help with interpersonal relationships...???

befuddled...this sounds frustrating.
I wish it were easier for you.
(((HUGS)))
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