wanted to give tabbycat a hug . Sorry you are dealing with everything that you are right now.I am glad your hub did not succeed .
I have attempted in the past .now looking back honestly it was the only way I knew how to scream out for the help I so badly needed.
sending positive thoughts and wish for him to receive the care and help .and you my new friend what a great wife an angel to be there for him ..even tho you too have your issues. getting him to the hosp was /is the best thing one could do. listening and talking to a t-doc are at the top of to do list too I think.
a pro doc to talk to and help me figure my way threw my issues and learning coping skills is something that helped me a whole lot.
belonging to this understanding forum here is priceless too. glad you found us.

let us know how things are going and try your best to get threw this...we are here for you.
PEACE
BMW