Thanks for the info and suggestions. I'll look into those.

Loretta, thanks for your support. We're still struggling, it still hits us hard every day and the kids (well, all of us) still have many trauma issues and anxieties, as well as dealing with the huge grief. Today is a tough day- as well as it being the 8 month anniversary of the accident (and tomorrow being the 8 month ann of losing Olivia), it's also Fathers Day today. As you can imagine, it's very hard to celebrate being a parent when you have one less child in your arms. We've kept to ourselves today and just spent time together but we also have a wonderful support network and they get us through every minute of the day.
xxxxx