Cherie, Being the mother of adult children is the hardest job in the world !!!! I'm constantly telling myself " keep your mouth shut, butt out, they have to make their own decisions "

It's just so hard when we want only the best for our families. I find that droplet therapy works best. Just one little suggestion at a time. Anything more sends up a wall from the adult child unless they ask for my help. They only want you to agree with their plan etc. Best of luck and many prayers as you deal with this medical problem. Betty