34 years!!?!?
goodness!
and I'm frustrated a year and a half into it!
I am so very sorry to hear the rough time you are going thru right now!
I will definitely keep you in my thoughts! Hang in there!
If it helps any I'm currently in the same boat with you on the flare side, and the steroids are taking my teeth (in what sounds the same manner as yours) as well. This disease is a poop stick and a half!
Be strong and hang in there!

-Ana D