Wow, I'm sorry, you have really been through the wringer and aren't done yet.

I wish I had some kind of advise to give but I have never been in any of those situations.

Actually I was coming on to this page because the wife of one of the firemen on my husbands department just had an aneurysm and I was trying to see if I could find out anything to help her.

They were able to operate for her and it went well. I just don't know what to do to help her.

I truly am very sorry for you, I hope you find some better times fast. No one should have to go through so much. Good luck!