Wow I have already receieved several ideas and I'm trying each to the extent I can .I can't Tell you how your answers is helping me get through yjis really terrible thing right now ,please any more ideas ,or if you know of any decent MD,s here is my addy rsdno@comcast.net ,I wanted to put a poem out ion Thanks bevcause it is all I can give but figured there is probably a better place and time for such

Humbly yours
rsdno