I am so sorry you have so much on your plate! I don't think I could do all that! You are one strong guy.
But I would definitely go the doctor and be adamant in changing the Neurontin! Fecal incontinence should not be endured by anyone IMO, when it can be avoided.
Also, it is possible that the Neurontin is causing your emotional stress...it is well known increase depression and suicidal feelings.
So it could be doing some of this hopelessness you are experiencing.
At that really high dose you are on, you will have to taper off carefully too.
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