Hi Leisa,
Just responded to the other post you did on my 1 and 1/2 days thread...You are not alone. I often wondered why my wife and kids couldn't understand my pain...If you need to talk, I am here. They all understand now, but it was difficult for me as well. My surgery is very soon now, so I may not be on after tomorrow for awhile, but if you want to talk, I am often on messenger.
my e-mail is hansmathias8@hotmail.com
be well,
Dave