Honestly, you need to do what is best for YOU. Only you truly know what that is.
Yes, I would tell the truth. I try hard not to lie to people, because I am firm in my beliefs and do not think that it is right to lie, even if it is just a little fib or to protect yourself.
Does that mean that I would look down on you for doing the opposite of what I would do? Of course not.
Ultimately, this is your life and you need to make your own choices. There's nothing wrong with asking for opinions or advice, but in the end--it is up to you.
I would tell the truth... but if you feel that strongly that you don't want to tell them the truth, then do what you need to do to protect yourself.
I absolutely agree that it is not anyone else's business. As long as you are doing the best you can do in this life and are not causing problems for others, you are free to do whatever you'd like.
I truly wish you the best and hope that once you make a decision, that things go smoothly for you. Take care--and do what you think is best.
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Originally Posted by Cblue
I dunno...I just can't. My husband's family will think I am weak and that mental issues are no reason to be on disability--they are very old fashioned. I can't function as a normal person would. They know something is wrong with me, but I think they just think I am stupid.
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