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Some people consider any mental health issues to be a sign of weakness and there is little you can say that will overcome their prejudices.

You also don't need the additional stress that their comments might bring you. I think your decision not to discuss it with them sounds wise.

I handled my situation differently. I'm pretty vocal/open about most things.....and my ssdi application and final approval was one of those things. A key difference is my family and close friends were very supportive of me. None of them would 'make fun of me' for being on ssdi.

I do have more casual acquaintances that have not been so supportive. Jokes about me seeing 'Dr Summeroff', etc. In their 'defense', they see me only on my good days when I've taken a bunch a pills and am all showered and dolled up.....they aren't here when I'm in bed and in pain. Some of them, I have been able to educate and enlighten. Some will still make snide comments periodically. Oh well

If you are anticipating a problem with your m-i-l, I wouldn't mention anything to that side of the family. Just keep repeating "I'm working with a good doctor and he says I have to give this more time."

I wouldn't lie, I just try to keep putting people off/be as nonspecific as possible. If someone comments on your not working, repeat "I'm working with a good doctor and he says I have to give this more time." If someone asks how you can afford xyz if you aren't working, just say "We are getting by, thanks." If someone asks if you've thought about ssdi, say "Thanks. That's a good idea."


Hang in there